Turbulence in my Head!!

Thank you ppl for all that visits and comments....I initially started this blog to satisfy my creative juices but after publishing the poem I just kept wondering what should I write about Next, then a friend of mine called me and gave me his words of wisdom (no offences meant to the individual, I appreciate whatever was said).

He said "Everything happens, happens for Good"......i dont know how much do I believe in it....or how much I would like to believe in it....i kept thinkin through the evening....through the night...various thoughts, views, question kept findin their way to my head....just then i got a messag from my sis which read >>>"97% of us wont send this: When jesus died on d cross, he was thinkin of u. If you have tht 3% faith in him snd it to 5 ppl & se wat he does 4 u 2morrow"..... i tried ignoring it like other chain messages we receive on daily basis but could not...as it changed the question in my mind......DO I wish to believe in whatever he does is for gud???..................... but to tell u the truth i could not answer it my self....I think that wen somebody has lost whatever was closest to the person's heart, most precious and valuable, everthing one wanted from the bottom of his being.....The person is left with nothing...nothin at all....n thts wen anyhing that comes his way is good or termed as good....because the individual has already seen the worst happen, He already has NOTHING TO LOOSE.

So the statement " everything that happens, happens for good" is MYTH as per me.

I am looking forward on your point of views...though i may sound saddistic but giv it a real thought.